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When you say force, what do you mean, are you going to threaten her or push her into confronting something that she might not be ready to confront?
You are right, your sister deserves a family and deserves to know her history and identity but if this is a secret that your mother has kept for all these years forcing her to face it suddenly might not be a great idea for anyone involved.
I think that you need to give your mother options, time to adjust to knowing that you know, so that the situation is good for everyone involved.
I think that it will be especially good for her to know that you are understanding and love her no matter what and I hope that will help a lot.
I wish you all good luck!
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