[Sam-N-Tony]

Lameana - I'm glad that they are finally deciding on what's in the best interest of the child.

HopefulinPA - that really is best case scenario.

Vernell - That prayer made me cry, thanks for posting it. I actually actually printed it and put it in my wallet to look at it every now and then. I have a couple of prayers that I keep in my wallet for different situations.

Update on us - We are still concurrent, the courts granted another 3 months to bp since they were kinda doing some of their stuff on the cp. On the Mom's end it looks like TPR and Dad's end, we are not sure, it's all scrambled and confusing.

At this point even if it were go to TPR, I don't think I'm in a position to want to adopt the eldest of my fsons. Even though they have been with us for almost 8 months, its hard to say that I can commit to him on a forever basis. With all the behavior and mental problems its been a big undertaking, which we will fight to keep him until a preadoptive placement or r/u. The worst thing that I wouldn't want to happen is to have a failed adoption. WHo knows TPR can be a lengthy process with appeals (which I am positive Dad will appeal) that he and we come around. With him being in limbo for the better part of 2 years he's soo confused on how to take things and deal with certain things... I don't know, we just wait and see.

I would love love love to adopt Mr. Touchy. So we will continue to wait and see. Their siblings so more than likely they wouldn't want to split them up and on top of that there is 2 more that are not in my home. So more than likely I wouldn't be able to adopt just one and I'm positive the other foster mom does not want my 2. I don't know we are so confused and don't know what to do.