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Mockingbird
Oh...5 months is soooooo new. It's so intense and it's like your whole day is paced around how often you think of him and how many times you question your new relationship. It's big breathe time......knowing you can't run ....... take one step at a time. It's allowing yourself to settle down and for both of you to make sense of this familiar stranger who has entered your lives. Don't hurry it.......let it take it's own pace. You have so much time ahead and slow for the first year (at least) should be your present goal IMO.
I have to smile here Mockingbird.....someone wrote the same stuff to me about 5 months into my reunion and I thought......"I'm going so slow I'm almost at a standstill" BUT.....I wasn't. I was pushing my own person emotional and physical boundaries. I was lacking sleep and being totally obsessive. My hubby was spending more time in "his cave" because this unpredictable women had taken over his wife's body and was hovering somewhere between Pluto or Mars. Give yourself time to sort it.....give your son time too. You have the rest of your life to make this wonderful.
(Smile)) Ann
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Last edited by kune : 04-06-2008 at 09:26 PM.
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