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We had/have the opposite issue with our kids...they both seem to be younger than we were told. In the very beginning, I looked into age adjustment - the legal process. My oh my, it's difficult. Even with bone tests, you have to submit a TON of proof that the age on the birth certificate is incorrect. It seemed insurmountable to us and we decided that it was not worth it. I'm sorry she feels out of place, but do you feel that she would feel more at ease with girls 2 years above where she is now? It seems that she would struggle with the work in 5th grade, along with the stigma of switching grades and the constant explaining that would be neccessary. I think it would be so much for a young girl to deal with. Our oldest son was always much larger - foot, height - than all those in his class (and he's the youngest in that grade)...but just this year (6th grade) they all caught up. He is now middle of the road.
If you do decide to move forward, she will have to test to change grades - especially skipping one - I would say all school districts would require that. But, if you go that route...try to move her to a different school. I worked in a school district for some time and they were very hesitant on moving kids forward (skipping grades) or holding kids back - the social aspect can become a bigger detractor than the educational aspect. Then kids start disliking school and that causes a great downward spiral.
God bless you in making this decision - I hope you find peace with whatever you choose! (sorry my post is so flitty...)
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