I just put my letter in the mail on Friday so I know I'm in for a wait. It's hard. We've been thinking about this for so long while they receive a letter and we expect them to write/call/email us immediately back. I was just thinking about how hard it's going to be to wait but that I've had all this time looking and thinking about what I was going to do once I found her. We can't expect them to contact us quickly when we've had so much time to adjust to how we're going to deal with whatever the outcome is.
I feel for you and believe me I will be there with you waiting for the mailman to drop off the mail ever day until I receive some word from her. I hope our wait isn't long but just remember that even if it is, it doesn't necessarily mean our worst fear has come to pass. It just might mean that she needs time to figure out what and how she should respond.
Good Luck!
Lori