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When we first started the adoption process we said we were not interested in open adoptions. Our lawyer and agency suggested that we read about it before we said no. What I read suggested it is better for the kids so we decided to go for it. We have open adoptions with both our children's birthfamilies and wouldn't have it any other way. Are there ups and downs, absolutely. I think any successful relationship takes work and open adoption is no exception. I can't tell you how much joy it brings us to see our kids play with their bio siblings, not to mention interact with their birthmoms! I'd be happy to answer any questions you might have if you want to private message me.
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