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Just recent I was told that I was adopted. I'm 54, what a surprise. Well, as the story was told was my adopted Dad's niece was raped by her step father. She came to live with my family and had me. So since the family knew the doctor they decided to just change my birth certificate. It wasn't a legal adoption.
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Someone does something wrong and so many other situations follow..
No one stops and says.. there are going to be consequences here.. and you are the one holding the consequences.. I am so sorry..
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This was a family secret that everybody knew except me. It was hard to understand but after thinking it made perfect sense why I always felt like I was always watching from the outside. So I decided to contact my birthmom who is 70 and ask her if this was true. She denied it and refuses to talk to me. What do I do now?
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Maybe she may changed.. maybe she may decide to actually face what happened.. Seventy is not that old..
Or.. does she have a medical condition.. That may be something to explore..
Also I would seek therapy if you can afford it.. Something like this is big..
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All the family I thought I had, I don't. Its like I have been living a lie all my life. I don't know whats true anymore. Does anyone have any advice on this?
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Therapy.. and looking in someone’s eyes and telling them how much this hurts..
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Ron Morgan is a good man.. I met him once..
I think he has a mail group for LDA.. not sure it was a while ago..
Jackie