[Oceans]

My other thought was that OA's really are a pain in the neck for agencies... Especially since they get put in the middle as an intermediary and on going counseling and support.

Also, do you think the agencies worry at times that the method of finding emoms is questionable in certain countries. Opening contact may also open a can of worms...

I don't mean to throw agencies under the bus here... AND, I probably am touching on every IA stereotype out there (and don't mean to)...

I agree with you tho... In an IA, if both parties would enjoy contact then why not pull aside the veil and encourage it to happen.