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Originally Posted by bromanchik
He should have said "I don't want any grandchild of mine to be punished with a 14 year old mother."
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BINGO.......
Amazing how the little human gets lost in these discussion.
I really hope that I or any adoptee, donar concieved or even planned pregnancy was considered a punishment.
There needs to be such a shift in attitudes regarding babies and children in this society. I was brought up to beleive that babies are a gift and it is up to the adults in their world to treasure that gift. I still am amazed when in this day and age an unplannd pregnany whether it be in good circumstanses or bad it is the child that hasd to "pay" in some way. Fat to often, not only in the adoption world but In real life the children are suppose to fulfill a need in the adult. It blows my mind...as I was NOT brought up that way...THANK GOD...my mom and grandmother taught me the right way.