Hi, I haven't been here for awhile, a lot of things have happened and I'm very confused. Just recent I was told that I was adopted. I'm 54, what a surprise. Well, as the story was told was my adopted Dad's niece was raped by her step father. She came to live with my family and had me. So since the family knew the doctor they decided to just change my birth certificate. It wasn't a legal adoption.
This was a family secret that everybody knew except me. It was hard to understand but after thinking it made perfect sense why I always felt like I was always watching from the outside. So I decided to contact my birthmom who is 70 and ask her if this was true. She denied it and refuses to talk to me. What do I do now? All the family I thought I had, I don't. Its like I have been living a lie all my life. I don't know whats true anymore. Does anyone have any advice on this? PS
I did find my son. He is perfect.
Suzz
