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I don't know if you are just trying to make your situation sound bad or what....
but...
I wouldn't be mad if my son's birthmom moved away "just cause she felt like it"
Really I think that's why most people DO move - for whatever reason they fell it's a good idea.
I think one of the reasons a birthparent may be kinda give more leniency is because the adoptive parent did not have a "crisis adoption". In most cases, they have thoroughly planned the adoption and have had to lay out what life will look like (at least for a while) in their family. A birthparent is just coming out of a crisis pregnancy in most cases....maybe the move is what she needs to get her life going again...
I don't think moving is ever something that an adoptive parent or birthparent can dictate to the other.
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