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Hey Renee
I agree ive called around through agencys here where I live in Tennessee and they ask questions just like this
1.Do you have kids?
2.Do you OWN your home?
3.Are you married?(this one I can understand)
4.How long have you been married?(this one I can understand)
5.What TOWN do you live in?
6.How long have you and your spouse been at your job?(I can some what understand this one)
7.Are you going to church?If So how long have you been attending the church?
8.Age of child you would like?(I can understand this one as well)
Theres plenty MORE STUPID questions and Then there is MORE QUESTIONS I can understand WHY they would ask them... See what I did is gave THE TRUTH the first time and then after I got through I asked the lady WHY all the questions that didnt matter and she said"BECAUSE THE PRICE IS DIFFERENT"
SO I called back NEXT day and talked to same person and answered the questions WRONG and I will tell you the prices I got.
The FIRST time I got "Qouted" (before legal fees) 30K
The SECOND time I got 20K
and
The THIRD time I got 15K
"NOW COME ON PEOPLE (AGENCYS) I HAVE ALL THE RESPECT FOR BIRTH MOTHERS AND I UNDERSTAND THAT THERE IS THE THING CALLED COST BUT REALLY IVE HAD 3 SISTERS HAVE KIDS I HAVE 4 WONDERFUL NEICES AND 4 NEPHEWS AND I KNOW IT DOTN COST 30 R EVEN 20K TO HAVE A BABY AND DO THE LIVIN ARAGEMENTS AND I AGREE WITH RENEE 100% IF WE ALL BROKE THE COST DOWN I DONT EVEN THINK IT WOULD COST 15K AND THATS INCLUDING LEAGAL FEES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I DONT MEAN TO OFFEND ANYONE HERE ABOUT THIS BUT THE WAY I LOOK AT IT IS I WOULD PEFER A BABY/CHILD IN A LOVING HOME INSTEAD OF LIVING IN STATE CUSTODY ARE EVEN JUMPING FROM HOME TO HOME................THATS WHY THERE IS SO MANY OLDER KIDS THAT DONT HAVE HOMES BECAUSE OF THE COST EVERYONE RUNS FROM IT IM NOT RICH BUT IM BUYING MY OWN HOUSE AND BEEN AT JOB FOR 2 YRS I DONT HAVE 2 WORK I WORK BECAUSE I WANT TO MY CHECKS ARE PRETTY MUCH FOR US TO SAVE AND HAVE FOR WHEN WE DO HAVE KIDS WEATHER IT WOULD BE ADOPTION ARE HAVING IT...... I LOVE KIDS ALL THE SAME DONT MATTER WHERE THEY CAME FROM ARE THE COLOR A CHILDS A CHILD... A CHILD DIDNT ASK TO BE BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD AND THERE GETTING PUSHED HERE AND IT JUST UPSETS ME ALOT. THEY NEED TO LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS BIRTHMOMS ARE GIVING THERE LITTLE BUNDLE OF JOY UP FOR A BETTER HOME AND THAT I RESPECT 100%
AND AGAIN IM SORRY IF I OFFENED ANYONE IN HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AND IM SORRY IF I DID
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