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In our OA agreement, the responsibilities (except for the visits) are on us. How is the child's birth mom "limiting contact" here? Less visits? I guess I would need to know the reasons why.
We are facing a hard situation now where DD's birth parents will not tell their daughters about DD for fear of their families finding out. I'm really sort of frustrated with this, and I am hoping on our visit next month, DD's birth parents realize this isn't really tenable. So in a sense any "decision" to limit contact based on what happens there is ours, I personally put the responsibility for it on the birth parents and that's disappointing too. As others have said, some pretty unexpected stuff tends to arise in life and I think very few people are adequately "prepared" by their agencies, etc. for the realities of OA.
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