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Old 04-01-2008, 04:58 PM
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Is It OK for a Birth/Firstmom to Limit Contact in an OA?

Hello everyone, I'm posting this on behalf of one of our forum members. Thanks!


I would like everyone’s opinions on this.

Why is OK for a birthmom/firstmom to limit her contact in an OA but not OK for the adoptive parents? And we’re not talking emotional reasons like it’s too hard…

It’s simply a life choice that will lead to limited contact with her child and is outside of the original OA agreement. I know what would be said if an aparent did this…

But is it OK for the birthmom to do it? Especially if the adoptive parents wanted a very open adoption and that was a part of their matching criteria?

Looking for all opinions here so don't be shy!
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