[karabur]

I am in my 20's and am married. We have a wonderful life. We own our home. We are the youngest homeowners on our block. I thought I wanted to wait until I moved into the house. The home is perfect. We have schools that I can walk to. The best schools in the area. Anyway seeing all of children and babies sure gave me the baby itch quick. I just finished school and am looking for that first big job. I do not think age is the real issue I think it's your heart. My mom is in her 40's and says there is no way she would ever parent again. Being a "mom" was not my mother's thing. She was a great mom. We are super close. She is my best friend. Being a mom again is not in my mother's heart. She wants to be a grandmother. Actually she is trying to pick what she wants to be called. I am in a wonderful marriage. I want to be a mom that's in my heart. We hope to adopt an infant from overseas. We are saving so I am sure it will take a little bit. As far as 35 I think that is young. I want 3 children and I would love to adopt them 4 yrs apart. So I am sure I will be in my 30's as I adopt.