I know the twelve steps say that the addict is the only one that can clean themselves up.. and I believe that the same applies to the one affected by the disease.. Your son is the one that will or will not deal with the consequences of living with an addict.. Accept or not.. be angry or not.
Putting the message out there is all you can do isn’t it..
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I wrote letters to both of them, explaining to them that it wasn't their fault, and that I loved them very much, I also made special arrangements to meet at their counselors office, so if they got to upset someone was there to help them get through it all.
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You took responsibly for your actions.. willing to stand in the truth of it..
Welcome to the forums.. I am glad you are here.. your words add to this life situation of giving children up for adoption..
Jackie