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To lilraskels
You said you encourage bmoms to write a letter, When I relinquished my rights to my children, I wrote letters to both of them, explaining to them that it wasn't their fault, and that I loved them very much, I also made special arrangements to meet at their counselors office, so if they got to upset someone was there to help them get through it all. The counselor couldn't beleive that I wanted to do that. I gave them their letters and the state of Kansas took them and lost their letters, I heard that my kids were growing up exactly like I didn't want them to, feeling like it was their fault, and blaming themselves. Am I angry? yes I am angry. Not at the adoptive parents, but at the state of Kansas for what they have done.
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