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Originally Posted by michsm
As for his rejecting you I found that the closer they feel twords you (especially when they think of mom at that time) the more they will push away.
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I know it hurts, But I agree with michsm.
I had a foster son who the minute he started to feel he was apart of our family and was having a good time with me my husband or his foster Grandparents, Uncles & Aunts, he start to feel guilty and get depressed and talk about his bio-family & cry... I remember At my brothers wedding they made him ring bearer and made sure he was in all the photos and even sat at their table, he was having great time.. even danced with me and the bride, then some time at the reception it hit him... Wasn't much we could do or say.. so my husband had to take him back to hotel... to let him cry it out..
Edit- He did get placed finally with a bio uncle he had never meet...
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Mom & Wife of Great Hubby for 23yrs
Birth Children
1  23 married (see gk's below) in USAF
1  21-single and living at home
Grandkids
1 born 11-05 & 1 5-08
Past Foster Kids
K-f 13 11-1997 to 2-1998 (with gm)
T-m11 3-1998 to 9-1999 (with uncle)
L-f 17 and her newborn 7-1998 to 6-1999 (aged out of fc)
H-f17 10-1999 to 2-2000 (moved to ALP)
Awaiting New Placement
Re-Approval 2-2008 
1st call: 3-10-08 
2nd call: 3-17-08
3rd call: 4-3-08
4th call: 4-11-08
5th call: respite 9 yr went great
6th call:5-16-08 4 different kids possible placements
ask to F to A since all are tpr'd we agreed we would be willing to look in to that
currently waiting on cw call to setup our meeting the kids..
7th call 5-21-08
5-22-08 still waiting...
Last edited by enchansin : 03-28-2008 at 10:00 PM.
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