1) Adoptive parents don't keep promises.
2) We're 2nd class in everyone else's eyes
3) Our children when/if we meet them may not love us.
4) Agency lies about things.
5) Any grandchildren you have by your child given up aren't considered your grandchildren because the mother of those children was adopted.
6) Birthdays are sad and another reminder of your loss. (My daughter's birthday is coming up next week
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7) Holidays without your child.
8) Other children you have being jealous and not willing to accept the child you gave up as their family.
9) People think we're lepers.
10) No one understands anything of what you're feeling when they haven't given up a child.
Rylee