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Tara - that's just it...it should be a day for bmom's to come together and acknowledge your experiences, feelings etc. So that's why I get confused now when I hear of others say "well, it's now taken over by amoms who are too selfish to share the "REAL" day with us." (not saying you specifically, just have read/heard it before)
If the day's intention is nothing to do with amom's, and it shouldn't, because it is for bmoms, then I'm unclear why some seem to put an emphasis on what an amom should/should not do for the day, kwim? Or why some seem to feel that it's been turned into a "token" day, when the whole thing was started as a way to be acknowledged and honored. Why has that seemed to changed over the years?
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