I live in San Diego and adopted using a Facilitator here. She is WONDERFUL and we got our son in 4 months because she limites the number of couples she works with. I am not sure of how far Ft. Irwin is, but if you could make it out to a few visits with her, she is worth it. E-mail me at
Heidi257@aol.com if you want her info.
Best of luck!