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I can say after having four of my own children...they insult me more me than I ever did at their ages. Maybe a sign of the times. Maybe I forgot how hurtful I was.
I was asked a lot if they were my grandparents. While I would freely admit they were not my grandparents, I would hate the fact they were old to be my parents. I was also my amom's translator. She spoke very broken English so when people spoke fast and or words she didn't understand she would look to me first. Something at times that I was irritable about.
I can't know why you adopted. My parents adopted me because they were unable to have their own children. So I felt second fiddle well third fiddle because they adopted a boy first.
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