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Good advice Suz,
We older birthmothers need to speak out and adivse others on how to survive placing a baby. Moms- to-be, stand your groud. Fight to have your voice heard. If adoption is the only choice open to you make sure that you understand fully what you can expect from everyone involved in the adoption. Get as much in writing as possible. Remember no body is doing you a favour. You are not guilty of a crime so don't be punished or pushed around.
If you want to know something and can't find the answer from the people around you ask one of us. If you don't want to ask openly send a private message. If you search on the web under birthmother you will find lots of support, groups and resources to help you.
We are here for you. Good luck and lots of courage.
emm
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