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Amanda, I am so sorry this happened to you. As an a mom, it makes me very upset to hear that the promises were not kept up (and that the open adoption agreement was not in place....).
Like Jackie said, things can change. Even though you haven't had contact in two years, do you still know how to contact them? I have many a parent friends who wanted a closed adoption and now that their kids are getting older wish that they did have contact with their kids' birth parents.
Also, to be honest, the early months are really HARD for both b parents and a parents. I remember feeling "overwhelmed" a bit with our OA...it's hard to know what the "boundaries" are. Insecurities are definitely a part of it all, etc. And just from my a mom perspective, do they "know" why you ceased contact? Maybe they didn't "understand" how difficult it was for you (not that they shouldn't have, but...)
I think if you can reach out to the a parents, it is worth a shot. I wish you the best.
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