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I feel very secure with this arrangement. I did manage to get to know his mom via phone calls when the father and I were dating. Her and I really got along well. She has children the same ages as mine.. with the exception of the baby's dad of course. They live in CA where my family is from and she wishes for the baby to grow up knowing all of it's family. We agree that the baby should grow up calling his parents mom and dad and once the baby is at an age it asks about it's heritage then he/she will be told. The child should be old enough to understand if it's old enough to ask we figure. We're actually discussing weather to adopt or do guardianship papers at this point.
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