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I just wanted to say that I never have been in your position. I don't think there are any written rules on how people should be though. I am glad you are happy with your adoption plan though. Everyone is different on how they feel, and your feelings are exactly that.. YOUR FEELINGS. You're not less of a person for not feeling like "everyone else", you are your own person with your own ambitions, goals and dreams. I am just happy you were able to place your child with a family that would nurture and care for your child the way you didn't feel you were able. Some people don't think children fit into their lives, some people long to have children fit into their lives. As for letting you have it.. not in this lifetime girl.. you did what you and your husband felt was right and that's what ultimately matters!
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