I am not in reunion yet but I would never expect him to call me Mom - If someday we build a relationship and he wants to call me that - Great! but if it never happens, that's fine too. I have no feelings around that...
Kathy - I totally understand wanting to be called Gma tho
To funny, I think I would feel the same!
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I guess I've also always told myself that I am less her child than my half-siblings she has raised, which she seems to think isn't true. She seems to think I am every bit her child as her other two kids. That's a cool feeling! Still, though, I think it's easier for her to call me her child than me calling her my mom...
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I have never had any other children so I am unqualified to answer BUT... If I did, I know my son would no less no more than my son. Yes, there are different memories but there is a place in my heart for him that no one could ever fill. Even tho I am not in reunion, he still fills it. KWIM... I believe you are every bit of her kid as your siblings.
It's a birthmom thing!! LOL
