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UncleMaybeDad,
I can relate to what you are dealing with. The biomom of my ason sounds like she could be your niece's twin in the world of crimes.
I adopted J's 4th and last child(she FINALLY got her tubes tied). Her oldest dd lives with J's mom, her 2 middle children have been bounced around like balls. It's so sad. J is talking about letting the 2 middle girls be adopted by the family that is currently taking care of them. Yes, she is in jail, again. She keeps going back and forth on what she wants to do with these precious girls age 17 months and 28 months. My son by the way is 7 months and her oldest turned 4 in Janurary 08!
I think it's great that you are going to have a face2face with her. I don't believe that an honest converstaion will be considered manipulation.
Good luck and keep us posted!
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