[2manyks]

i think if they both sign tpr's, and its all done legal and everything, you will not always carry the legal risk. you will have them bugging you though. sounds like you are ok with that. it is a good idea to go and check out the situation in person. it will also help them/her to see you in person and make everything a reality rather then just a vague notion, KWIM? make sure you see a lawyer (orwhatever you have to do in florida - florida law). get guardianship or custody. you dont want them claiming you kidnapped their baby. its hard for moms to make an adoption plan without any family/friend support. sounds like she has support from her current dh/boyfriend? good luck and keep us informed!