[DebsW]

I have a question for Birth Moms or Birth Fathers in reunion, if you knew or had suspicions that your baby had been given (through adoption) to Aparents who did not do the best job at parenting would you want to know?

How much would you want to know? Would you ask the questions or would you wait to see if your son/daughter shared?

If you thought your son/daughter was not sharing because they did not want you to feel badly about the adoption would you ask for the history of the way they were raised? How their childhood was etc.

Thanks

DSW