I had requested non-id but my letter was returned along with an address to forward it to. I did and I waited several months before hearing back but today I did.
I heard back from someone with LA County Adoptions- she sent me a letter saying she couldn't send
me info because I was a sibling but if I send a photocopy of our mother's ID, she can send
her the info. What a happy coincidence we share a mailbox LOL
I sent that off this morning, so I should have some non-id info in a week! I'm so excited!
She also told me that there's a law in the works for California that states a searching family member (that would be me!) can petition the court and they'll assign a thrid party (she was assuming it'd be the agency) to contact him and see if he, too, would be interested in filing a sibling waiver form. I thought it was already how things worked, but she said it was kinda new, as of January? Either way she'll be sending me more info on that, as well.
I finally feel like I'm making some progress here... it's a amazing feeling!
