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I am hoping to at the very least have her acknowledge me as her son. I have sent a couple of letters in December and January, and a valentine's day card. So far no response, but I understand she's going through a lot for a woman of 78. I just feel it's up to me to prod this along gently.
It's been hard for my wife to deal with, my search and the emotional changes I'm going through. And my adult children have also not understood this; they think I'm trying to leave their family, which is probably a reflection of how my wife felt. I think she's doing better now, but they all kind of wish I would just ignore the whole thing and go back to being the dad they knew.
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