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"I got a family the day before I gave birth and all seemed to be going well. I signed the papers a couple of days later and well things started to get a little uneasy."
Am I reading that you only had contact with the family one day before birth? If so, then there may be a great many areas that you need to talk about. Unless you have some written agreements what you think you both agreed to and what they think you both agreed to may be very different things!
As an a-mother, I would say that I hold the title of Mother, Mom, Mommy, Mama, etc. depending on my child's need and mood. When she refers to the "other mother" it is Birthmom or Savadoran Mom or Mama CeeCee -- but not the "M-word".
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