[SilverWitch]

While I was trying to figure things out, last night and today, I discovered that she has no boundaries! She attempted to log on as me and delete things from my page on myspace! Fortunately for me, after she did the same thing prior to this, I had already changed my email for the myspace page and she was unable to hack it.

I know she is punishing me. She despises her adoptive parents and is very negative about them unless they are giving her things - currently they are helping with new furniture (four poster bed, etc.). She is also disgusting about me - according to both her ex-husbands - when I am the one she is punishing.

I have to admit that I no longer have a desire to have her in my world at all. I have tried - three times - and failed, without any idea why - three times. She often says that I don't know anything. But I know all about her. Other people want to talk about her. Sadly, it is not positive and I do not bother to talk to them at all anymore.

It is my firm belief that she is severly bi-polar and that her a-parents indulge her and put up with her because she threatens and throws fits if they don't. Her a-mom is totally afraid she will lose "her" daughter. Her a-dad is tired of the whole business - he had not wanted a child in the first place.

It is sad and seriously damaging. The most current anger is (I found out through a mutual friend) because she believes that I "spy" on her. She is severly undereducated and does not realize that with the right training - (CI and Paralegal for me) anyone can find out anything about anyone. I tried, to no avail, to explain this to her several years ago - she did not listen. Lately, she pretends all is well - my ability to know that she has been once again evicted for non-payment of rent, etc., is what I think she fears. If she knew I had already known this, she might have considered that I said nothing to her.

Also, she likes to poke her nose into my business, by asking very personal things from my sister, who has told her "don't call me again". Her cousin, my sister's daughter does not like her. She had told my niece that I was bad - not a bright thing to say to someone who actually knows you.

As I said - no boundaries. I will never completely shut her out - but I will not be so easy to forgive again - three times makes me a fool.