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Old 03-13-2008, 01:56 AM
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Silverwitch, I am so very sorry that your daughter is so angry. It sounds like she cuts you off as a way of punishing you. And you don't have to put up with it.

Six years is a long time to go in a reunion without having a face-to-face meeting. At times, I'm really grateful that the Internet was in its infancy when I reunited with my son. It forced us to develop our relationship in person, rather than email. Does your daughter ever give you a reason why she doesn't want to meet you in person?

I know how much pain you're in right now, and I wish I could make it better. All I can say is that you have the right and obligation to take care of yourself. Set the boundaries (it sounds like you have), and then stick to them. Your daughter has a lot to learn in life...she really needs to grow up a little.
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