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Thanks I have been using I messages alot but I am not sure I am getting my point across. I want her to understand how I feel and how hard it is for me to have decided to give my child to her.
I think that sometimes she feels as if she did this all on her own or doesn't want me communicating with her because it is a continual reminder that she did not do it all on her own and have all of the biological experiences that come with the pregnancy and child birth.
I know it is hard for her and very hard to adjust to and all I want to know is what is okay for me to do and say and what isn't, because the last way I want to come across as is offensive.
or to continually have to go through issues such as this because it will only make the situation worse and the relationship harder.
I really do thank you for the advice though and the post it is really helping to have comments from outside of the situation and is very comforting to know that there are ways to go about this without being mean or making the situation worse.
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