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Thank you all of you for your responses. Thank you for your support. I am in pain too. I know I hurt him really bad but telling him something that it wasn't my thing to do, but I said before my mother in law wasn't going to tell him. I spoke to her several times and she was giving me excuses. Her adp. father died probably 3 years ago and she did not say anithyng to him. She is been keeping this so secret that she keeps his birth certification papers and passport and everithig so he doesn'k know. What I was supusso to do, I knew this real information and I was supussed to pretend to be blind and not being loyal to him.... ? how he could trust me in the future...? and if we had kids in the future just pretend about genetics...no I couldn't go like that anymore. it was afecting me. her secrets and manipulations were efecting us, our marriage.
I don't know if we are going to be together anymore and it took courage to do it. we might not be together or maybe we are going to be together.
But I just want to let you know that it wasn't easy At ALL....
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