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Originally Posted by blue37
.. I was afraida that his amother could die and she never told him. anyway.. Now my husband knows and he is really hurt, he told me that sometimes is better to be blissfully ignorant, it wasn't my thing to tell... my mother in law doesn't know that I told him...
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Oh that sounds awkward, is your mother-in-law likely to give you a hard time? I'd be quaking, but I am a wimpy person about confrontation!
I think you did the right thing by telling, because he could just as easily have felt betrayed if he found out eventually and then found out you knew but didn't tell him.
It will take him some time (maybe quite a bit of time) to psychologically digest the information. All of a sudden he isn't exactly who he thought he was.