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Our lives seem to parallel
Hi Lynn - it's Lynn. I'm very sorry to hear your daughter has left again. I am glad to hear you had some good times before she did, though.
My stepdaughter is still gone, however we found out last night she is pregnant a third time, got married quickly a second time to an 18 yr old new marine and is moving to CA today, taking her 2 year old with her (which means that child's dad and grandparents can no longer see her). Her life seems to be filled with instability - similar to what your daughter seems to be experiencing. Do you ever wonder if it was her early life that was so chatotic that causes these erratic choices? Everything I read now days says those first 3 years are so important. I watch my stepdaughter try to "recreate" the drama of her own life, although she is showing no signs of calming down and facing her problems. I am convinced she is suffering with a mental illness. And since she has completely shut us out, there is no way for us to even attempt to help her. It's hard . . . .. hang in there.
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