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Both are good options...
Having a bio child and having an adopted child are both excellent options. I must say, however, that if you really, really want a little girl, the odds are a lot better with China than with letting nature take its course. Let's face it: if you conceive, your chances are about 50/50 that you will have a girl. If you adopt from China, your chances are about 95/5 that you will have a girl.
It sounds as if you have some concerns about adoption or China. I'd be delighted to talk with you about the subject if you are interested. I brought home a wonderful daughter from China when she was 18.5 months old, and she is now almost 7.5 years old, so I can speak both about the adoption process and about raising a Chinese daughter.
Sharon
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