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I can put up with a lot, but I believe allegations like those would push me over the edge. I would have to look into treatment centers for her. But we all have different levels of what we can deal with.
How sad for your other grandchildren to suffer because of her. I know many will disagree with me, but I don't believe that an attachment disordered teen can heal.
I recently had to evaluate for myself whether I was able to continue having my daughter in my home. I had to decide whether I could provide the care she needs and whether it was worth the damage she could cause the rest of the family. In my case, I chose to keep her here (only time will tell if that is the best, but its what I decided). Sometimes their needs are greater than our abilities.
I know its tough to let go, but sometimes that is the greatest love of all.
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Life is too short for drama & petty things,
so kiss slowly, laugh insanely,
love truly and forgive quickly.
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