I've also always wanted to adopt. I have an apopted daughter (22 months), a soon to be adopted son (9 months - our daughter's bio brother, surprise!!!) and a bio son (5 months). I admit I never truly understood the 'need' to have bio children. There are so many wonderful children out there who just need to find their true home. But my feelings on that subject became drastically more complicated once we actually had a child to care for. I'm still sorting it out. We mainly decided to have a biological child because I absolutely wanted a sibling for my daughter and we didn't yet know she had a biological brother on the way. Now that we have both, I just don't know where we're headed. My husband and I tell people that we're done having children - I mean aren't our hands full with three under two years old? I'm madly in love with all of our children. And I'm really starting to think we should have another. Should they be adopted or biological? Maybe my biological son would like to have a biological sibling. But why would I do that when there are children out there that need homes? I'll have to ponder that for a year or two
