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"My husband and friends constantly question my loyalty to my aparents when I speak of my mom and dad."
It is difficult for some of our friends, relatives and even those closest to us to really understand what adoptees go through. My kids were upset when I searched for my bfamily as they thought I was being disloyal to my aparents. But as time has gone on they have begun to understand that that is just not the case.
I agree it does sound as though your bmom has problems. It is so sad that we can't change others just by wishing it were so. Always remember that YOU are the most important person. Be good to yourself!
Snuffie
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