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Susan, thanks for the link, I'll look into it. Also, I do hope you feel better soon, nothing worse than the flu. I usually choose my words very carefully and re-read all my e-mails to make sure that I am "neutral". I never reprimand or scold, any of my children as I don't see the point in making them feel badly about themselves. I do have anger issues with myself but I can separate it from the anger towards my bson. Honestly, I'm not sure I should use the word anger, maybe disappointed? Maybe it's the feeling that he seems to be having a relatively easy time with the reunion and I'm struggling - of course, that's coming from my perspective!
Raven, he has seen the "bad side" of me, just not directed at him. I can be very opinionated and in our numerous discussions I've made my position quite clear and we've had some heated debates when he takes the opposing view.
Quantum, thanks, I think the next time I see him (likely sometime in April or May) we'll have a long talk.
Brenda - that's the real point isn't it? If it was anyone else I would have made a point of saying something!
Thanks for all your responses.
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