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There is no time limit on making a decision!
I am going to toss out a couple of ideas out...
My first thoughts for you is to take you time making your decision. There is no time limit here... While you are deciding and talking with a counselor that is not biased, look into all the support mechanisms out there... If you are considering going to college, there are schools with daycare options right on campus. If you are considering working, there are subsidies for paying for day care. The father is legally responsible for paying for his share - even if he is not in the picture... meet and network with other young mothers for play dates and support. It all can help out...
If you look into adoption, visit all the various degrees of open adoptions, semi open and closed. If you would consider adoption, you could ask for as many visits you would like, emails, photos, outings, anything.
I wish only the best for you...and your precious little one...
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