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Brenda,
I didn't mean to come across as condescending, she did ask for all opinions though and I was just trying to tell her that babies do grow up and that parenting is a lifetime commitment. Maybe I did word it wrong and it did sound a little harsh, I never meant it to sound that way and I am sorry if I offended anyone especially the original poster. Please forgive me. Parenting as well as adoption is a lifetime commitment and both should be thought out completely. However, I believe I did suggest that she seek counseling from someone who is not connected in any way to adoption or has any interest in whether or not she parents her baby so that she gets an honest feel for what she is to expect in the future for whatever she decides.
Again Please forgive me if I offended anyone, that was NOT my intention.
I wish this birthmother nothing but the very best!!!
Hugs
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