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The openness of an adoption can always change. If I was an emom, I would always ask for everything I think I would ever want and that way you can always change it to less contact....if needed.
We have a very open adoption with home visits, emails, photos, calls. But, both the firstmom and I have talked about the possibility that someday that amount of openness may need to change... and we will do whatever is best for our 'shared' daughter.
We would like to adopt again and would strive to have another OPEN adoption... It works for us.
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