Is it just me, am I a freak, or is anyone else out there totally grossed out by kissing? I have a good relationship with my husband, we are very affectionate, sex is good, but I can't stand kissing him (I mean open-mouthed tongue kissing). We used to do it early on in the relationship, I used to do it with lots of guys when I was younger, but lately...the thought just disgusts me. I mean, not just my husband, but with anybody. The germs in their mouth, the plaque on their teeth, the food particles...Yuck! Is this normal or is it some kind of phobia? I don't think it's hurting our relationship but I'm not sure. He says he doesn't mind, he feels the same way, and we are very physically affectionate in other ways. What do you think?