foreverthankful
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what can i do to help my youngest get over this ??? if he refuses to talk to us and refuses to get help...seems now I've gained one son only to lose another... has anyone else gotten over this hurtle ???... foreverthankful...is now forever crying..
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My daughter did not react well when I told her I had given a child up for adoption.. she also said.."What else have you not told me."
I say allow him is anger.. Honor his anger..
Secrets and lies hurt.. I have never spoken with my third born son about how it affected him when I told..
He is a silent one..
I think there are some things we can not change.. and I know there are no excuses but.. maybe giving him information on the 'why of it' may help..
No one is perfect.. no one does this life perfect..
Jackie