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m-mom: I hear you. I am from the closed era. I had a "kidney infection" when I went away. Our stories are similar. When my mom apologized a few years back she also said, "you know, if you wanted to bring him home we would have supported you". OK, that would have been nice to know way back then!! Honestly, I doubt they would have but it makes her feel better. Just makes me mad! LOL
I have often wondered how that must make a first mom feel in an OA. Gma. Gpa's, Aunts, Uncles & cousins all get to keep their status, but the first mom gets lowered a notch or two in many cases.
No advice but I feel for you. ((((hugs))))
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